causes of selfishness

                                                        

     Fear of Losing Control

The fear of being vulnerable or losing control is the most common cause  of selfishness. Part of being human is the need to be in control of everything in your life. If  at any time there's a feeling of not being in control based on the circumstances around there's an impulse to react. any time this sense of control is threatened or taken away, some people will do anything to get it back. This can cause a major case of selfishness

 

 

                                             Fear of Becoming Irrelevant

this happens more in the corporate environment a certain employee might decide not to teach the new staff the tricks of the trade or the workplace ethics because he/she feels that the new staff will understand his edge and will render he/she irrelevant. if there's any sense of irrelevance they'll try everything in their power to remain relevant

  Self-Satisfaction

People are always trying to prove themselves to someone. Whether it be friends or family, people are always trying to find pride in the work they do. Because of this, they form self-satisfaction.

There's always a cure for everything if your spouse is selfish do not worry there's a cure all it needs is a little understanding and patience and all will be well.if you understand the cause it will be so easy to solve the challenge and this blog is always open and ready to listen to any of your challenges. we will solve it together you don't need to drop an i.d,email addy or phone no or contacts just put down your comments on anyone of this post as anonymous and check back on that same post and your challenge will be solved. your privacy is very important to us. you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be loved and  pampered. 

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