signs to know if your partner is selfish

               HOW TO IDENTIFY A SELFISH PERSON

               Selfish people are always  nice and really sweet..

               you may be in love with a selfish person right now,

               or perhaps you have a best friend who’s selfish.

               Unfortunately for you, the traits of a selfish person aren’t

               easy to notice, because they cover their darker side so 

               well and some of them dont even know they are or their

               actions are. the latter are the hardest to change

               they feel its a way of life
                                

                 When  the relationship starts to grow,

                 u'll always feel emotionally drained and weak because

                 all you are doing is giving emotionally and nothing

                 is coming back.

                The unfortunate thing about this situation is that if you 

                truly love this person you might not notice that and then you

                get so attached to this person  and dont wanna let go

                And before you know it, they could suck the happiness 

                out of you, and all you can do is watch helplessly.

                the question now is how do i know if my partner is

                selfish

• He/she talks about his or herself most of the time what he/she wants needs
• He/she is only concerned with how things relate with him or her and nothing else
• He/she does not consider the impact of his/her actions on people ( you inclusive)
  and when you try to tell the person he/she cant make a link of how his or her actions are affecting you
•  He/she gives only when something has been given to him or her or expecting something back
• He/she wants to force you to do what he/she wants and not what both of you want and expects to do it wholeheartedly
• He/she wants your support emotionally and wants you to worry about
  how he/she feels and never takes time to do this things for you
• He/she is concerned with what he/she is entitled to in the relationship
  (a mentality of entitlement) which is followed by demands 
• He/she manipulates people (including you) emotionally and feels there's nothing
  wrong with it
  All this and more are signs that will make you know if your partner is a selfish person but, incase you are already in a relationship with this kind of person or even married to this person dont worry there's a solution just look out for next weeks post and all will be well. A relationship whichever type is meant to be enjoyed and that will happen when both parties actively get involved in it for the other person or people and not themselves. you get into a relationship to give and not the other way around each parties has to invest in eact other.
  i'll like to apologise for the break in transmission as regards my post on this blog , had to go offline for some issues but am back and we will cultivate together a healthy relationships with our partners and everybody cos thats how it should be ...... chao